What couples are saying
Excerpts from notes and emails we’ve saved from our clients throughout the years.
I literally did not know what to do when I reached out to Ginger. I had just found out about my husband’s chronic infidelity (but didn’t yet know it was sex addiction) and my life was completely turned upside down. Dr. Ginger helped me understand what I was experiencing through the lens of trauma and she guided me through those dark early months with an incredible balance of expertise and empathy. Her husband, Bill, worked with my husband and helped him establish a recovery program that turned his life around and also gave me a basis for reestablishing trust. Ginger and Bill brought us together for powerful couples exercises every once or twice a month in the beginning, then more frequent couples sessions as we made our way through SRT. They customized the model for us, and made sure that the pace was manageable and productive. I can honestly say our marriage is stronger now than it ever was in every way. I would highly recommend the Bercaws to my closest friends and family members because I know they would be in the best hands possible.”
– K and D (Burbank, CA)
We had been to other couples therapists before, and they were all helpful in some way. But we had never really gotten the depth and direction that we did from you. You helped us discover why we kept going around the same block in our conflicts and guided us to newfound heights in our sex life. I can honestly say our marriage has never been better, and we know exactly what we need to do to keep it that way. We will always have you to thank.
– J and C (Pasadena, CA)
To think of how far we’ve come from that day I found out… it just blows my mind. Your gentle but clear guidance and your patience with us through all our ups and downs is something I will never forget.
– Kate (Los Angeles, CA)
As you may recall, we contacted you because things had not been going well in the bedroom for years and we knew we had to do something different. I’m so glad my therapist knew of you and suggested we look you up. The four day intensive you set up for us literally ended up changing our lives. What we learned about boundaries and how that led to us sharing more openly and honestly with each other than ever before was worth the trip to Pasadena in and of itself! You helped us address sexual troubles that we were beginning to feel hopeless about – so much so that we went home feeling entirely hopeful. We felt truly cared for by you both and can’t thank you enough for everything you helped us with.
– Marisa (Boston, MA)
The PIEs in your program were extremely powerful. They made it easy for us to know what to do and always left us in a much better place than before we stared.
– Brad and Kimberly (NY, NY)
We knew we had come a long way since I got into recovery, but when it came to our sex life things were not clicking for us. We found your book and within 10 pages I had a surge of hope. I could not believe you had written about US! SRT was exactly what we needed to allow us to create a shared sexuality that really worked for each of us. For someone wha had such a long history of sexual behaviors, I was amazed at how much I had to learn about healthy sexuality. I feel so fortunate to have found your book and hope that every couple who has struggles as we have finds it too.
– Marc (Pittsburgh, PA)